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Created on 2006-09-20 04:12:02 (#11191819), last updated 2008-04-27
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Basic Info| Name: | Lil'Butterfly |
|---|---|
| Birthdate: | 1978-07-13 |
| Location: | United States |
Bioi am a submissive and though not new to the lifestyle, i am learning each day. My Amo - who is also my husband - is very new to the lifestyle and enjoys learning with me and molding me into what He wishes me to be.
i am plus-size but not over-huge... probably bigger than most submissives though. My Amo loves me just the way that i am but understands my desire for weight loss. He is helping me with that though portion and eating control...
i am not an expert in submission and i believe that nobody is indeed an expert. i believe that everyone has His/her own abilities and performs to those abilities. i also believe that not everyone relationship is a cookie cutter relationship and so lifestyles must be adapted and personalized for each and every relationship. In O/our relationship W/we deal with two unique circumstance. The first is that my Amo has two children which live in the household. The second is that in addition to the children, Amo's ex-wife also lives in the household. i know that for some this would be odd, but for me it is for the children and that in and of itself is why i submit to this adjustment in my life.
Amo's ex-wife is not submissive to Him nor is she really submissive to anyone in her life. She, however, is not Dominate to anyone in her life either. She has a few boyfriends but for the most part is single and not really looking. No need to complicate her life any further than it already is. She did attempt to be submissive and she can submit but it would need to be to the right person. She can not get passed the fact that Amo is her ex and was not able to submit her will to Him.
The children are another thing W/we dance around. i am required to be the person that i am but not overly in front of the children. These include things such as minding my tone, calling Amo and the children (who are both boys) Sir and what amo calls 'quiet submission' which means that i am still submissive but not visually submissive. It is the type of submission that one would display in public but perhaps a little more personal.
complete surrender - use your mind to control your emotions. That is where that strong will and strong mind are to be used.
i am plus-size but not over-huge... probably bigger than most submissives though. My Amo loves me just the way that i am but understands my desire for weight loss. He is helping me with that though portion and eating control...
i am not an expert in submission and i believe that nobody is indeed an expert. i believe that everyone has His/her own abilities and performs to those abilities. i also believe that not everyone relationship is a cookie cutter relationship and so lifestyles must be adapted and personalized for each and every relationship. In O/our relationship W/we deal with two unique circumstance. The first is that my Amo has two children which live in the household. The second is that in addition to the children, Amo's ex-wife also lives in the household. i know that for some this would be odd, but for me it is for the children and that in and of itself is why i submit to this adjustment in my life.
Amo's ex-wife is not submissive to Him nor is she really submissive to anyone in her life. She, however, is not Dominate to anyone in her life either. She has a few boyfriends but for the most part is single and not really looking. No need to complicate her life any further than it already is. She did attempt to be submissive and she can submit but it would need to be to the right person. She can not get passed the fact that Amo is her ex and was not able to submit her will to Him.
The children are another thing W/we dance around. i am required to be the person that i am but not overly in front of the children. These include things such as minding my tone, calling Amo and the children (who are both boys) Sir and what amo calls 'quiet submission' which means that i am still submissive but not visually submissive. It is the type of submission that one would display in public but perhaps a little more personal.
complete surrender - use your mind to control your emotions. That is where that strong will and strong mind are to be used.
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